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10 notes tagged "intelligence"

  1. therapy wordly skills and power  
    what you learn in therapy is mainly feeling skills, how to really remember, how to let fantasy come, how to find words for invisible things, how to
    therapeutic memory fantasies intelligence
  2. sex like when we were young  
    people no longer young (that’s most adults) often want a sex life that matches the one they had — or wanted to have, or believe they should have had
    sexuality intelligence aging
  3. perceived rejection in sex  
    … the sequence of events some patients take for granted: “You wanted to make love with him … create closeness and pleasure for both of you … And
    sexuality intelligence
  4. genetalia’s hydraulic capacity  
    for most women who want to climax, the vulva, not the vagina, is their best bet. people make too much fuss about the genitalia for two reasons: the
    sexuality intelligence emotions sensory
  5. non-sexual needs addressed with sex  
    most of us have emotional needs that we try to address with sex (besides pleasure and closeness), but sex is not the best way to satisfy them … a
    sexuality intelligence anxiety manly womanly
  6. brain spinal column pelvic nerves information transfer  
    We get erect or wet as the result of an impressive chain of events: brain perceives a sexual message brain sends a message down the spinal column
    sexuality intelligence emotions
  7. giving sex meaning  
    people say that the meaning of, foundation of, or distinctive feature of human sexuality is (meanings that various people and institutions claim sex
    sexuality intelligence meaning relationship
  8. attunement sense of common experience  
    “attunement” is the experience of two (or more) people inhabiting a common psychological space at the same time. People refer to this variously as
    experiential sexuality intelligence
  9. people don’t talk about what they want from sex  
    —either because they don’t have the vocabulary or because they’re embarrassed, hesitant, or scared to use words. If people did talk about what they
    sexuality intelligence
  10. clitoris the only organ for pleasure  
    the clitoris — the only organ in the human body with absolutely no purpose other than pleasure … most women only climax when this little pearl is
    sexuality intelligence

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