longing for the freedom of our chains

• the frequent choice to remain within the predictable, the safe, the familiar, even the miserable, thinking it preferable to the uncertainty of the unknown
• Freud identified what he called “the repetition compulsion” … (speculating) that one might repeat the traumatizing experience as somehow “safer” than the original, believing .. that it will be better this time
• letting go of the old is apparently much more difficult than we think

linked mentions for "longing for the freedom of our chains":

1. Freud’s self-interpretation of psychoanalysis

   Columbus believed that he had found a new way to India, when what he had discovered was a new continent. There is also a difference between what

2. life is a series of attachment and losses

   the nature of our psyche is based on change, growth, curiosity, and imagination. But there are very conservative elements within us that retain a