asking of the other what we are not addressing ourselves

• projection and transference two dynamics of relationships
• our existential proclivities to fear and lethargy, and both nemeses win more battles than they lose
• What am I asking of the other that I am not addressing myself?” - heroic question because it embodies a shift in our center of gravity from the other “out there” to the Other “within” … something in each of us always knows and registers its opinion when we are shirking, avoiding, procrastinating, rationalizing
• The task of the hero within is to overthrow the powers of darkness, namely, fear and lethargy.
• to show up in the best way we can